Thanks for the help.
Indeed I admit I am very lazy with my equipment - yes ive gone through a fair few leds... and the connections are an issue with just twisting wire together.
I dont have a multimetre, im just debugging off my leds.
If the capacitor was discharged then id be able to put more current through it - and I cant, unless its all seeping through invisibly.
and. some more madness - ive drawn up a circuit (tested) which is even more wrong...
This circuit is supposed to discharge MORE than it charges! (I think this because there is the fork and about 50/50 sans the capacitor should be going down both) and if you count the resistance of the led's the discharge path has more freedom (the charge path has a fanout before it.) - so the cap should be empty, but it just seems like its plugged up.
(about deillumination)
I had an idea tho, it could be that discharging and charging at the same time is giving me 0 amps through the cap, but I dont think its supposed to be that way? the cap should just end up becoming a constant leak no?