Thanks for everyone's help with this one 
I decided to just jump in at the deep end and do it lol, decided to go with the missing pulse idea with a phototransistor. Initial prototype is done, so far only the triggering feature has been implemented, the delay, counting etc is to come later.
Anyway here it is in the wild, well in my back garden

I decided to just jump in at the deep end and do it lol, decided to go with the missing pulse idea with a phototransistor. Initial prototype is done, so far only the triggering feature has been implemented, the delay, counting etc is to come later.
Anyway here it is in the wild, well in my back garden
