OK Jon, I am seeing a bit more of your problem.
You mentioned experimenting with your daughter, one
appliance at a time, so lets look at the microwave oven.
Where I live in Sydney, people chuck out microwave
ovens and other household goods on to the footpath
rather than getting them repaired for scavengers like
me to pick them up. Some ovens are very easy to
repair. Some of the chuck outs still work fine. I have
a box load of spares from discarded ovens for my
existing working unit.
I was thinking for you and your daughter. find a
simple microwave oven with a mechanical timer.
The "turn the knob" for so many minutes type. If you
can't find one for free just buy an old one.
Now, you modify or replace the existing mechanical
timing mechanism with a timer for say 2 minutes maximum.
Or build- in, a 2 minute electronic timer in series with the
existing mechanical timer.
Terry Pinnell's site has heaps of timer circuit ideas.
Your daughter makes her pop corn in the night. Even
if there was nothing in the oven, the magnetron
would survive 2 minutes of abuse.
If you or your wife want more than two minutes just live
with the two minute maximum time and and hit the timer
again or put in your own secret over ride.
I know you were talking about cards but could your
daughter learn to use a modified oven like this?
Yes, actually. A modified oven may be very good, in fact. We've joked that a
microwave with ONLY a popcorn button and nothing more at all would probably help
a fair amount. The other problem we do have is that she likes to warm up bread
with cheese on it in the microwave and that should NOT have 2 minutes to it --
here, more like 30 seconds at most. This is why I'd probably use several of
those convenient "cards" I mentioned -- I'd put pictures of each common thing
she likes to make and work on making sure she makes the connection and uses them
for the purpose. I think she would go along with this, after she got the idea
okay.
There are times when she chooses to repeatedly run the microwave for a few
seconds, stops it, looks, starts it again, stops, looks, etc. I think she's
learned this habit the hard way -- from burning things up. I might like to
experiment with some kind of accumulation counter that would allow her UP TO 2
minutes of use before it just refuses to work anymore until I "clear it" for
her. This would tend to inhibit the more serious problems.
In the case of the microwave unit itself, it may actually be better for me to
tinker with the front panel system either as you describe or in some fashion to
allow me the flexibility for her use, with limitations as I later find I need.
(Rather than using a specialized AC power outlet, for example.) That may get
back to a programmable microcontroller or, at least, some manner of
programmability in it so that I can discover new problems and work out new
strategies to cope with them. (Hopefully, with an end in sight -- but if no
exact end, then at least some very long times before I have to come up with
something new.)
We are also finishing a self-contained area for her, occupying about 1400 sq ft
or so of pre-existing space in our home. I've already finished up a new kitchen
there and am working on a new bathroom. In total, she will have a bathroom, a
large den area (family room), a toy room with her computer and stuffed animals
and toys of various kinds, a bedroom, and a kitchen. Nearby, we will also have
two rooms for a caregiver that can "live in" with us and her, which add another
800 sq ft, for about 2200 sq ft separate from the rest of the house we live in,
with me and my wife and my youngest child (who is also autistic, but not so
seriously so.) Total space is about 5000 sq ft, so we aren't cramped.
Over time, I suppose, I'd like it if the modifications we do and work through
could find a broader market than just ourselves. If we can work out those
things which satisfy our own needs and yet are adaptable enough to adjust to the
needs of others without burdening the ideas down in the process, then that would
be nice. We've already contacted one of the construction folks we know who
specializes (and has long done so, some 30 years) in adapting homes. And he
believes that he'd be able to make immediate use of some of what we've talked
about. The state pays for some of these things, but will only pay for UL
approved adaptations, if electrical, so that would be a necessary hurdle.
Oh, well.
I've enjoyed having to write about this and think more about what it is that may
really be needed. It's helped me focus better, quite frankly. My thanks to you
and others.
Jon