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How long will the situation last?
If you accept, as some do, that this sort of thing may continue, on and off for some time, perhaps decide whether you want no family there, for years, or accept the worst and move to some form of roster and/or ballot?
What I remind myself is that typhoid-Mary was isolated for 30-odd years. If you create a sustainable plan, you may find you don't need it.
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Our brief lock-down period did great things for online tech. Suddenly all manner of things, meetings, school, all sorts found that online catchups were viable: different, but workable.
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Feel for you. Can only encourage you that isolation can work. Here in New Zealand we are basically back to a cautious but almost normal, without restrictions on internal travel & meetings. May go to the beach for a BBQ for Christmas.