Lead-free solder alloys melt at a higher temperature than lead-tin alloys. The amount of power needed depends on the mass and dimensions of the soldering iron tip. There is no "magic" in 60 watt versus 85 watt soldering irons. The higher wattage provides more power than the lower wattage, but the tip temperature is a complex function of heat losses from the soldering tip. You can try a temperature-controlled tip, but success depends on matching the power available, tip mass, and size to the task at hand. It takes more power to transfer heat, at any given temperature, to a larger mass than is required for a smaller mass.