After comparing the data sheet waveforms between the 1381 and the DS1817 I now see what your problem is. As is (no additional circuitry) the DS1817 will not replace the 1381. There is nothing in your circuit to turn it off after it's triggered.
Chris
well that would explain the behavior that it just trips open and never closes...
why does the 1381 snap back when the lower voltage is reached but the DS1817 does not?
(please excuse me if this is a "stupid" question. When it comes to electronics I am self taught with the help of books and the internet. I find that I have huge holes in my knowledge all the time.)