I think you just need to find the right place and you'll get enthusiastic help. I've been an amateur machinist most of my life, but I pursued a different career. Thus, I had to teach myself through reading and experimenting. It's been fun. I have a few horror stories too -- but they turned into powerful lessons.
There's a lot of information about machinist work out there on the web. I taught myself by finding books/magazines, reading them, then experimenting in the shop. One classic is "
Modern Machine Shop", but realize it dates to the 19th century. An enormous source of information is google books: both the magazines like Pop Sci/Pop Mech as well as books from the early 20th century. There's little in the machinist's trade that wasn't known then, at least for non-CNC or exotic materials-type stuff.
I'd be happy to talk about any questions you have, so either ask in the forum or send me a PM.
Here's a list of the ebook stuff I have on my computer; it's all free out there on the web:
Modern machine shop:
0-toc_vol1.pdf
0-toc_vol2.pdf
1-Teeth_of_gear_wheels.pdf
10-Cutting_tools_for_lathes.pdf
11-Drilling_and_boring_in_lathe.pdf
12-Examples_in_lathe_work.pdf
13-Examples_in_lathe_work.pdf
14-Measuring_machines.pdf
15-Measuring_tools.pdf
16-Shaping_and_planing_machines.pdf
17-Planing_machinery.pdf
18-Drilling_machines.pdf
19-Drills_and_cutters.pdf
2-Teeth_of_gear_wheels_-_cams.pdf
20-Hand_drilling.pdf
21-Thread_cutting.pdf
22-Milling_machinery.pdf
23-Grinding.pdf
24-Gear_cutting_machines.pdf
25-Vise_work.pdf
26-Vise_work_continued.pdf
27-Vise_work_continued.pdf
28-Erecting.pdf
29-Erecting_engines_and_machinery.pdf
3-Teeth_of_gear_wheels-continued.pdf
30-Line_shafting.pdf
31-Pulleys.pdf
32-Leather_belting.pdf
33-Forging.pdf
34-Wood_working.pdf
35-Wood_working_machinery.pdf
35-Wood_working_machinery_continued.pdf
36-Boilers.pdf
37-The_steam_engine.pdf
38-The_locomotive.pdf
39-The_mechanical_powers.pdf
4-Screw_thread.pdf
40-The_indicator.pdf
41-Automatic_cutoff_engines.pdf
42-Marine_engines.pdf
43-Marine_boilers.pdf
44-Hardening_and_tempering.pdf
5-Fastening_devices.pdf
6-The_lathe.pdf
7-Details_in_lathe_construction.pdf
8-Special_forms_of_lathe.pdf
9-Driving_work_in_the_lathe.pdf
Appendix_-_dictionary_of_terms.pdf
Appendix_-_test_questions_for_engineers.pdf
Index.pdf
500_Plain_Answers_to_Direct_Questions_on_Steam.pdf
A_Manual_of_the_Hand_Lathe_Comprising_1869.pdf
A_Manual_of_the_Hand_Lathe__Comprising_C.pdf
A_practical_treatise_on_the_steel_square.pdf
A_practical_treatise_on_the_steel_square_1913.pdf
Aircraft_Mechanics_Handbook.pdf
Aircraft_Mechanics_Handbook_1918.pdf
Amateur_mechanics.pdf
Amateur_mechanics_1884.pdf
Applied_science_for_metal_workers_Dooley.pdf
Applied_science_for_metal_workers_Dooley_1919.pdf
Change_Gear_Devices_1903.pdf
Drill_Press_Kinks.pdf
Drill_Press_Kinks_1908.pdf
Drilling_Lathe_Work_Boring_mill_Work_1901.pdf
Drilling_Practice_and_Jig_Design_1915.pdf
Drop_Forging__Die_Sinking_and_Machine_Forging_1911.pdf
Ford_Methods_and_the_Ford_Shops_1915.pdf
Gage_Design_and_Gage_making_1920.pdf
Handbook_of_Small_Tools_1908.pdf
Heat_treatment_of_Steel.pdf
Hutton_handbook_1901.pdf
Index_to_the_Geometric_Chuck.pdf
International_Library_of_Technology.pdf
Iron_and_Steel.pdf
Jig_and_Fixture_Design.pdf
Jigs_and_Fixtures.pdf
Johnson_Rafter_Angle_Square_Manual.pdf
Kent_1906.pdf
Lathe_Work___Planer_Work___Shaper_and_Sl.pdf
Machine_Shop_Calculations.pdf
Machine_Shop_Catechism.pdf
Machine_Shop_Primer.pdf
Machine_Tool_Operation.pdf
Machine_Tools_and_Their_Operation.pdf
Machine_Tools_and_Workshop_Practice_for_.pdf
Machine_design__construction_and_drawing.pdf
Machinerys_Encyclopedia.pdf
Mechanical_drawing.pdf
Mechanical_engineering_and_machine_shop_practice.pdf
Mechanisms_and_Mechanical_Movements_1919.pdf
Milling_Machine_Kinks.pdf
Modern_Toolmaking_Methods_1915.pdf
NIST_gauge_block_handbook.pdf
Patterns_for_Turning.pdf
Practical_mechanics_for_boys.pdf
Properties_of_wood.pdf
Punches__Dies_and_Tools_for_Manufacturing.pdf
Railroad_Shop_Practice.pdf
Repair_Kinks.pdf
Screw_Thread_Kinks.pdf
Shop_Mathematics.pdf
Shop_and_Foundry_Practice.pdf
Simple_Decorative_Lathe_Work.pdf
Text_book_of_Advanced_Machine_Work.pdf
The_Advanced_Machinist.pdf
The_American_Machinist_Shop_Note_Book.pdf
The_Complete_Practical_Machinist.pdf
The_Metal_Turners_Handybook.pdf
The_Practical_Tool_maker_and_Designer.pdf
The_Progressive_Machinist.pdf
The_Railroad_Pocket_book.pdf
The_Screw_cutting_Lathe.pdf
The_watch_and_clock_makers_handbook.pdf
Thread_cutting_Methods.pdf
Tool_Making.pdf
Toolmakers__Kinks.pdf
Triangulation_applied_to_sheet_metal_pat.pdf
Turning_and_Boring.pdf
enginemechanical00kentrich.pdf
navy_BasicTools.pdf
navy_FluidPower.pdf