Why can't something just work? You put it together, plug in- and it works, is that really impossible

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Today finally came the SG3525 and IR2110 for this supply. I put in the 3525 first, tested its outputs to be OK- 45.4kHz at 47.8% duty (zero feedback voltage). Then put in the IR2110 and checked its outputs: low side OK, high side seemed strange, but I thought it was because there was no high voltage on the PCB yet. So I put everything together and plugged it in though a 60W bulb. And it worked (or so it seemed). Voltage regulation worked too, and was stable. But the high side mosfet was a little warm.
OK, next I tried to load it with a 33 ohm resistor, but the supply seemed not to be able to maintain the output stable- I could not even get a proper voltage reading on a DMM. I thought, it was because of the light bulb, so replaced it with a 2A fuse. And, as soon as I connected the resistance at output, the supply got lifeless. Then I found out, that there was some 3.5V at pin 10 of 3525, but it didn't came from the current sense transformer. Tried to adjust the current sense pot to the ground position, and there was a Bang. Both mosfets were dead.
Replaced the mosfets and the SG3525, and tried to plug it in again through the 60W bulb. But the light stayed on and the new mosfets were dead too. THROUGH a 60W bulb. How was that possible?
Changed the 2110 chip, but now I'm kinda afraid to test it again. You know- the funny thing is, that these parts don't grow in trees

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