Like I mentioned above... you can try to avoid it by using a breadboard to prototype your items... but you will eventually need to know how.
This should be a skill that is just as important as knowing V=IR
Lets put it this way... you proto-type and send out a simple circuit with a microcontroller to get built for you... which still requires transistors, resistors, and other components to actually do anything useful... If it does not work, how do you determine the problem? Some troubleshooting steps require that you can use a soldering iron to remove components to do proper tests. Without this skill, there is no point building something, and no prospective employer will keep someone on staff missing such a basic fundamental skill. (As said employer would now require 2 employees to do a job instead of 1)
Now, if you have a disability, but were still able to learn a great deal about electronics, then that would be a different story. You could be an asset... but as it stands, you are incredibly green, and do not show an interest in learning without finding some shortcut to avoid learning or soldering.
If this is something you have any kind of passion for, you should do it right.
If this is less of a passion or desire, and more of a whim, go surf around for arduino kits and shields. They make all sorts of pre-made parts you can simply snap together. When you run into an issue, or want to do something unique, you will struggle. And everyone else will struggle to assist you.
