No, I haven't given up on you! I spend five days per fortnight with my partner, and she doesn't like it when I "waste time" online
I'm surprised by the differences in your multimeter readings, and confused by the measurements themselves. It seems that voltage is coming out of the daughter board on that pin, which is supposed to be a 5V supply voltage input to the daughter board.
My next suggestion is to replace the 78L05 regulator. It's one of those transistor-like devices on the main board. The "78L05" part number is standard and they should be available from any electronic component shop. If you have Radio Shack in Canada, they carry an equivalent called NTE977 - see
http://www.radioshack.com/product/index.jsp?productId=12653586
When you've replaced it, don't solder up pin 2, and measure those voltages (pin 4, pin 2 pad, and pin 2 pin) again (relative to pin 3). I'm expecting to see about +5V on pin 2 pad with the new regulator.
At the moment, I suspect the fault is on the daughter board. I think the next step will be to remove it completely and take some very clear and well-lit photographs of it.