Some pictures of your current setup would be good, as it sounds like you mostly have what you want. See if you can get detailed shots of the front, back, and side of your USB extender, where you would want to mount it, and what something would look like plugged into it.
Maybe from there I can give you some detailed instruction on how to finish what you want while leaving your USB harness intact. I don't know if it's possible, but we'll see.
For my idea posted above, you would need a DC-to-AC inverter, just a small one would do. 100 watts would be fine. If you find something smaller, fine. Then you'd need a 5VDC, 2A wall wart that you would plug into the inverter. Cut the DC plug off the other end of the wall wart cord, and test with a multimeter to see which wire is + and which is -. Figure out which USB is + and -. Tie both V+ and V- from the wall wart into the USB jack assembly on the appropriate pins. Disconnect the V+ going from the harness to your head unit.
Yes, the wall wart should replace the power to both ports.
I'd be interested to know the part numbers you used from RadioShack to construct those LEDs, boards, and switches. A pic of how you put everything together would be great, too. I love seeing what people can imagine and then build.