As davenn stated already this is the point, you are asking me to help find you something that honestly doesn't exist at a workable level as you have specified for what you want to do... What you saw in the video is just a proof of concept, not a finished product that actually works and is reliable in the real world, regardless of their claims I wouldn't hold my breath...
If you want 'accurate' IR detection for things like counting or gestures you need to get away from a small resolution grid of detectors like that... Even at your desired 32 x 32 that is only 1024 pixels to work with and it's poor accuracy to begin with... You can get a 307,200 pixel (640 x 480) pin hole camera for chump change, that is 300 times the resolution... Or get into dirt cheap mega pixel cameras that are 1000s of times better resolution than your desired 32x32 grid... At that resolution you can get the accuracy you need, or at least reduce the error significantly...
Where do you get such a beast? Easy they are called CCD sensors and they can be found in digital cameras... Cheap modules like this...
http://www.ebay.com/itm/VGA-CIF-OV7...94?pt=US_Security_Cameras&hash=item27ca77c1e2
Or webcams like this... Even higher mega pixel resolution and no IR filter...
http://www.ebay.com/itm/New-USB-2-0...t=LH_DefaultDomain_0&var=&hash=item2a227d9f33
Depending on the lens you will want to remove the IR filter if it has one (many do because it distorts colors) some of the 'night vision' ones will not have the IR filter because they are using the IR... Next you will want to mount the camera behind a visible light filter (or swap the IR filter for a visible light filter)... Where do you get one of those you might ask? Easy go get a roll of new 35mm slide film, take it to a developer and get it developed unexposed, aka buy it and hand it right back in to get developed... Presto you now have a bunch of visible light filter material...
Next assemble this camera and interface it to your computer... If you skipped the camera module board and went right to a cheap webcam it's all setup, just plug and play complete with software to view the image...
You now have a 640 x 480 (or better) IR sensor array... Don't want that high of a resolution, simple grid it off into small blocks and average the image across each block to scale it down...