Oh, it's a good idea not to reply to your own question before anyone else because it appears as if the question has been answered (at least for those of us who look for threads that nobody has replied to)
Hi Steve, thank you for your answer.
I ended up using a 555 for the reset pulse, I know is a little over the top and could be done in a more simple way without using a 555, but it seems to work very good for me.
This is like a programmer that is not very knowledgeable and uses 100 lines of code to execute a certain task when the same task could be done with 20 lines if you really know what you are doing.
I've used the remaining gates on the IC to be able to have an external source for the reset as well as the pulse from the 555 and the last gate as an inverter.
The timing with this circuit is about 110 ms