Oops! I guess you're not destined to achieve tenure here.
Since this individual seems to have emotional issues the following tip will not be of any use to him. For all other young men please read this scenario.
The scene is a science fair competition. There are well over 100 junior engineers displaying their genius. Included in the 100 contestants is only 1 female. Her project could dwarf or epic fail in comparison to her competition. It really doesn't matter. The media on the scene will inexplicably gravitate to that lone female regardless of her genius or lack of it.
Message to young men:
Everything changed in the mid 60's. Discrimination didn't end, it just switched places. Ever wonder why the ranking officer on the scene of COPS is
always female? Odds are that the five other officers on the scene have far more time in grade but she's the one with all the stripes.
The term "Affirmative Action" is discrimination with a different name. You're either going to have to just suck it up or do your best to change it.
Less time gaming and texting will afford you more time paying attention to the
'real' things that affect your lives. I'm trying to impress this on my 20 year old grandson but I don't think I'm getting through because he's always distracted by his damn smartphone!
Chris